Tuesday, March 09, 2010

A Slave to Public Opinion

Great thoughts from Donald Millers blog:

"We were designed so our identity would be affirmed in a relationship with God. In other words, my feelings of self worth do not come from within me, they come from an external source. That source was supposed to be God. But in the fall of man, that relationship was severed (it had to be as God could not mix or mingle with anything opposing him, not because He is a jerk, but because He actually defines what is good in the first place) and so after the fall, we continue to look for affirmation from an outside source, and that source is each other."

This reminds me of a life changing awareness that Tim Keller calls "The Problem of Sin". Don take it to the next level by observing how Christians can "sanctify" the pursuit of a flawed Christian identity that is defined by a jury of peers within the Church.

"That said, in Christian circles, the whole game gets confusing. Christians rightly affirm Godliness, theological accuracy, Biblical literacy, morality and zeal. So the Christian learns from an early age that if he has these characteristics, a jury of his peers will affirm him. And as well they should. But the problem comes when the opinion of the jury replaces the redemption we find in God. I once confronted this same friend about a wrong he had committed, and he became intense and angry. To him, I was threatening his very survival, his ace card (morality and righteousness) in the game. If his redemption would have come from Christ, he could see himself more objectively. But instead, he was a slave to the jury of peers."

These are also ideas Don covers in his book Searching for God Knows What, which I highly recommend as well.


groansfromwithin said...

This is a great post! All of our value and worth need to come from Jesus Christ and him alone! An external source who is not merely a peer... but our Lord!

DK said...

Thanks man. This concept has been life defining the last few years.

Valentin Burlachenko said...

Very well written, definetly got me to overlook my ministry life.